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Definitely Love is not lust

To Love without Condition, To Talk Without Intention, To Give Without Reason, Care Without Expectation, that's the Spirit of True Love Hi!!!! I'm not sure how many people realize this, but love is more than lust. Without love, you cannot reach a person's soul; lust only provides you with attention and pleasure. lust is not a constant, you see. Without saying a word, love allows you to see her in your heart and experience her suffering. Love is continuous, therefore it never changes.  Krishna believed that love does not need marriage in accordance with the Vedas. In reality, love is a selfless, pure feeling shared by two lovers, whereas marriage is a compromise. Love is real. It has no beginning and end.  True love is the emotional connection without ego and there is always we not he/she. Don't leave that person in your life everyone will leave you when you face failure but one person will be there for you, to motivate you, to lift you from failure and wait to see your s...

Give

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  Hi!!! long time !!        Here, I made up a scenario that makes us think about what I'm doing and for whom I was accountable. A girl questioned me why no one was helping me, why couldn't rich people help poor people? Plus the brief explanation to her Remember one thing today: you may be tempted to get money, but you see beggars, poor families, and destitute children. Nobody will be willing to assist them. Even yet, five rupees make beggars happy and bless us, but it is a modest change that we do not contemplate picking up from the ground. We are all beggars; we demand different things from different people, some of whom are more transparent than others, and we name them beggars. Everyone will be focused on their personal development; money is the life motto for most people. But remember one valuable word: "Give" since everyone recognizes it as a word but no one appreciates its power. If you serve poor people, the universe will bless you, and some eye...

Traumatic Bonding

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  Hi!! A trauma bond forms when an abusive person forms an attachment to the person they mistreat. When the individual being abused begins to feel compassion or affection for their abuser, this is a classic sign of pathological enabling. This connection may take a few days, weeks, or months to form. Yet, not all survivors of abuse go on to form such bonds. Although anyone has the potential to experience trauma bonding, there are a few common risk factors that can increase that potential. Among these are: ·        Subpar mental health ·        Self-Esteem Problems ·        Stress caused by a lack of funds ·        There is no safety net ·        Confusingly, the phrase "traumatic past" ·        Personal history of bullying ·        Depression brought on by not having a sense ...

Strange

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  Hi all !!! Everything in life is ultimately determined by how you act and feel. We encountered strange personalities and potentially deadly circumstances at every level. Strange people teach us crucial life lessons. Don't give someone your space until you want them to if they make you happy and help you deal with the unpleasant surprise. While not everyone wishes for us to cause harm, some do. Because every second counts, spend it with those who will appreciate your presence and friendship rather than making yourself available to everyone. This is similar to Toska's longing for a lost piece of you. To find the right relationship for you in life, you must first value yourself. Thank you for what you have. lastly, It can be enjoyable to have someone with whom you can share your joys, and it can be reassuring to have someone with whom you can share your losses. #Strange BY PAVI

Emotional Abuse

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Hi all! Mental Abuse is much more painful than physical abuse because you are consumed by your own thoughts. General Idea: In general, an emotionally abusive relationship occurs when there is a consistent pattern of abusive words and bullying behaviours that wear down a person's self-esteem and undermine their mental health. Emotional abuse's underlying goal is to control the other person by discrediting, isolating, and silencing them. It is one of the most difficult forms of abuse to identify because it can be subtle and insidious. It can, however, be overt and manipulative. In either case, emotional abuse can erode your self-esteem and cause you to question your perceptions and reality. Emotional abuse is the use of emotions to control another person to criticize, embarrass, shame, blame, or otherwise manipulate them. While dating and relationships are the most common, mental or emotional abuse can occur in any relationship, including friends, family members, and coworkers.  ...

Changes ONLY Never Change

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  Hi all! If you change how you look at things, the things you look at change. The term "change" is ubiquitous. Don't force anyone to change or expect anything to change; instead, change yourself. "Keep taking time for yourself until you're back to being you." "Love yourself unconditionally in the same way that you love those closest to you despite their flaws." Perhaps some people did not actually change. Maybe you just didn't realize who they were. So never let your emotions get too deep because people can change into true colors at any time. The only people who deserve a special place in your life are those who have never made you feel as if you were options in theirs. The way you love yourself teaches others to love you. Life is about trusting your instincts, taking risks and finding happiness, learning from your mistakes, and accepting that everything changes. Sometimes our blindness causes us to lose sight. Everything evolves over time. I...

Love is Blind

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  Hi all!!! A person who is in love can see no faults or imperfections in the person whom they love . Loving a person is beautiful when apart from Expectations that have been surpassed. Accepting a person as they are. There is a Greek term called Pragma which means making compromises to help the relationship work over time, and showing patience and tolerance.   Love is all about not expecting anything in return. If you expect, how can you call that Love? If expectations are not met, there is no love. Lewis defined agape as unconditional love. It is the unconditional love you feel for all life forms, which you extend knowingly without expecting anything in return. It's very conscious and pure love. It's comparable to what we sometimes call unconditional love. Respect, understanding between people, maturity, caring, protecting, spending time with, and giving importance to our close ones are all aspects of love. Love is Great but not for sale. Sharing love with a person is w...